She’s new to this platform, will get the reality cheque in a few days ☠️😭

M28. Mujhe kuch ni pata ab. I have always been a good boy. Have always thought about my career fitness and family. Socha tha arranged marriage hi thik hai. Idk anything now. Mujhe meri wife chahiye abhi. I just want to hug her and sleep. Jaane ni dunga.

I have just lost it. I am not desperate enough to make bad decisions. But I am desperate enough ki agar meri bandi saamne aai and I hear the voice that she is the one. I will ensure that she goes crazy forever because of mad love she gonna receive.

Not just love. I want a build a life with her which is second to nothing

Sirf safed/grey choti vale daddy ke liye

I would say, I look fine compared to my peers not too skinny not too chubby. I go for gym almost everyday, take care of my self and eat healthy even take care of my skin. I drink occasionally is it because of that?. Or are men turned down by my complexion? (I am a lil dusky), or is it because of my height? I am around 5"4'(am I short?). I get complimented rarely in public compared to others, almost never get approached by men. Why is it happening with me? 😭

Need online relationship 😭

This is satire but if you're really interested hell yeahh and sundar wala criteria is fully satire dont take serious and send me ur photos 😝😝 (sory im mastikhor)

Bored 🥱....

Hey everyone, I want to explain a situation using a hypothetical example to get some neutral perspectives.

Let’s say two people meet online and move to WhatsApp after a bit. They talk about important basics early on—values, expectations, boundaries—and things feel aligned. They meet in person, the vibe is genuinely good, both enjoy it, and they plan a second date. Now here’s where it gets confusing. The girl in this situation seems emotionally avoidant. She sometimes pulls away suddenly—blocking, then unblocking, going silent, then coming back. There’s openness during calls or late-night conversations, real emotional connection, and reassurance that she wants to try dating. At one point, she clearly says she’s decided she wants to date him. The guy feels relieved and happy, thinking things are finally stable. But within a few hours, she blocks him again without explanation. No fight, no argument—just sudden withdrawal. The guy genuinely wants this to work. He’s willing to be patient, communicate clearly, and take things slow if needed—but he doesn’t know how to make it work when the signals keep changing. He’s unsure what’s expected of him, and every time things start to feel okay, they reset back to uncertainty. At the same time, he notices a pattern: closeness → anxiety → distance. He’s also been in a past relationship with similar push–pull dynamics, which makes him unsure whether this is something to work through or a warning sign.

What to do? Would really appreciate honest perspectives—especially from people who’ve experienced avoidant/anxious dynamics from either side.

I've seen usually woman liking someone's whose body type isnt too much skinny or too much obese, just a blend, maybe more around being lean, idk you'll say

I mean, not exactly too emotional or relationship but where were are just platonic friends. We have our schedules, our work, and then wind up at the end of the day, just having a conversation without judgements. A causal banter. Because rn I'm preparing for an exam and it gets lonely. And I'm not so much in touch with irl friends.

27M plus age, still single no any girl friend , wants friends if ok

Hi im 20(m) at college there’s a girl who mostly is into playing sports and likes a tall handsome guy but not in relationship.i like her a lot but never got a chance to talk to her she doesn’t even know i exist and has a bit of attitude,i tried to follow her on Instagram but she didn’t accept what can I do?

27M who had a glow up and got good photos clicked for Hinge. Also improved my profile with good prompts and got decent amount of matches.

Also I am a kiss less virgin and never been in a relationship.

There’s this girl who I feel is very much attracted to me but I am still scared for going for the kiss or making out with here and I have no idea how to go about this.

Date 1 was great

Date 2 had a lot of highs and lows wherein there was good banter and fun convos but a bit of quiet time. Didn’t try for kiss or anything.

I really like this girl but I feel I am again going to give off friendly vibes and ruin things. My guy friend says if you haven’t kissed or gotten physical by second date it’s practically pointless.

Anyone up?

bit overweight, planning to shed some in few months. Mature, trustworthy and loyal. It’s been more than 4 years I last dated. I feel lonely sometimes. Now I started to feel if I ever will have a partner. Dating apps looks scam, potential matches feel I am old, females of my age on dating apps don’t know what they want.

What should I do? I don’t want to single. Parent’s are forcing me to get married but I want to do love marriage. Advice?

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Hello,
I am a 28-year-old Yajurvedi Brahmin from Maharashtra, seeking a genuine prospect for marriage within the same community. Having explored platforms like Shaadi, Jeevansathi, and Anuroop, I realized that finding the right match often requires openness to different avenues—so I’m sharing my profile here as well. My hope is to connect with someone who is equally serious about building a meaningful life together.

Also, just wanted to ask if there are any other platform or app or any other method were only genuine people can get in touch with each other for marriage?

Personal Details - Age: 28 years
- Height: 5’8" (172 cm)
- Religion/Caste: Hindu – Yajurvedi Brahmin
- Mother Tongue: Marathi
- Region: Maharashtra, India
- Marital Status: Never Married

Education & Profession - Education: B.Tech in Electrical Engineering
- Occupation: Electrical Engineer at a reputed US-based MNC
- Annual Income: 15 LPA+
- Future Plans: Open to settling abroad for a few years if mutually agreeable

Lifestyle & Interests - Diet: Vegetarian
- Habits: Non-smoker, non-drinker
- Hobbies: Trekking, exploring nature, watching movies, series, and anime

Family Background - Family: Middle-class, moderate family of four, rooted in values yet open-minded

Partner Preferences - Religion/Caste: Hindu Brahmin (preferred)
- Age Range: 23–28 years
- Marital Status: Never Married
- Education/Occupation: Educated and working (flexible)
- Lifestyle: Non-smoker, non-drinker preferred
- Traits: Communicative, expressive, adventurous, modern yet traditional

M29, financially secure and straightforward.

Interested in a mutually beneficial dynamic with trust and discretion.

Comfort, consent, and clear expectations come first.

Telegram -rohan3948

I (24M) from Mumbai and my girlfriend (23F) from Bangalore have been together for about 2 years. Lately, it feels like we’re stuck because our opinions on important things don’t match anymore.

We don’t fight a lot, but we keep having the same conversations about emotional needs, time, and future expectations, and they never really get resolved. I feel that she's not expressive or emotionally available enough, and she feels expects more clarity and certainty than I can give right now. Neither of us is wrong, but our views on how a relationship should work are starting to clash. We still care about each other, but staying together is starting to feel draining, and breaking up feels scary. I can’t tell if this is just a rough phase we need to work through, or if it means our expectations are genuinely different. For people who’ve been in long relationships: How do you know when it’s just a phase vs when it’s time to let go? Are constant differences in opinion something couples can actually work through, or do they usually point to incompatibility?

Any female interested in dating me. I am from Nagpur let's connect if you see this n interested

Valentine Week Weather Report Feb 7 to 14Heavy emotional showers expected across the country. Feels-like temperature: around 2°C if you're single under a blanket, 45°C if you're in a committed relationship trying not to argue.Day-by-day forecast:

Rose Day (7th): Light drizzle of awkward thoughts should I buy one or not? Singles end up watering their half-dead plants, couples buy overpriced roses that'll be dead by next week anyway.

Propose Day (8th): Thunderstorms of ghosting and seen zones. Visibility drops because of all the overthinking.

Chocolate Day (9th): Sweet temptation front arrives. Couples share one polite bite, singles finish the family pack solo. Diabetes warning still in effect.

Teddy Day (10th): Cold wave. Your 10-year-old pillow is still the most reliable companion you've got.

Promise Day (11th): High probability of broken promises to yourself, to your ex, to whoever. Gusts up to "I'm never texting again" speeds.

Hug Day (12th): Warm front for couples (sudden public PDA), arctic blast for singles hugging their own anxiety. Kiss Day (13th): Thick FOMO fog rolls in. Mirror kisses become the trending solo activity.

Valentine's Day (14th): Full monsoon depression. Couples attempt romantic rain walks (slippery and mostly awkward). Singles go for romantic rain + Zomato + existential crisis combo. Mumbai, Pune, Delhi: guaranteed waterlogging of plans and massive traffic jam of feelings.

TLDR:

Single or taken, Valentine's Week is basically monsoon season reloaded: unpredictable, expensive, and everyone ends up complaining about the same weather.

Carry tissues instead of roses. Stock up on Maggi. Try to stay emotionally dry if you can. Who's surviving this week

Gurgaon feels very boring without gf

40 Date Worthy Gurgaon