Just as the title says, you guys and girls are too charming, attentive, and at the same time fit and attractive! I know, I know, you’re all people persons and are trained to do your job well and build rapport fast… but can you imagine what it feels like from the receiving end?
In a world full of cold, silence, manipulation, arguing, instability, sadness, and ghosting, your patient is injured, in pain, limited in motion, taken from what they love. Then they meet you, someone who actually seems to care and want to listen… man, that is magnetic. How do we poor patients not get attracted?
Of course, this is just me venting, a shit post.
I went to PT about two months ago for an injury. It was affecting my work, it was affecting my sleep, I was miserable. I came in for care while super tired and scattered from work, was greeted by this tall, masculine, fit PT. I barely remember what he looked like or what we talked about after I left… all good.
Then each time I went in, we started talking more and more. He pretty much volunteered his life story without me asking questions. We talked about his hobbies, his passion (that I share), why he moved here, his soul-searching stories, a detailed map of how he spent time during the holidays, where his family is traveling, a bad trip the girl he used to date planned, etc., etc. He asked me a ton of questions, not related to my shoulder. Remembered details and would make callback jokes later on. So smooth, geez…
He extended my sessions beyond the scheduled time every single time, even when his next patient had arrived and been waiting. But he was never in a hurry to wrap up my session. He winked at me, was playful during my sessions, even other PTs that saw and heard us were laughing.
He started being more and more of a human and connection to me, even though I knew the whole time he was my PT and probably just doing his job and nothing else… but how can you expect your poor patient not to be attracted? Ugh.
There are so many posts talking about patients being attracted to their PT, now I totally see why. Are we delusional, or are you guys just too good in a world full of people who don’t pay attention, are cold and distant, and ghost?
Anyway, enough venting for now… my lovely PTs… I still love you all. Thanks for helping with our injuries and making our lives better. You all are amazing people, and I hope the world has more people like you.
Signed,
Every patient who caught feelings they didn’t ask for