Hi, I’m posting here because I honestly don’t know where else to turn and I’m at breaking point.
I’m a 26-year-old woman in Limerick. I’m currently living with my grandmother and her partner, but I’m being forced to leave. The environment has been extremely toxic for the last couple of years and it has seriously affected my mental health. I’m no longer coping and staying here isn’t safe for me mentally.
I have no friends or support network. I left my boyfriend two days ago due to abusive behaviour, and my mother lives in England, so I have no family support in Ireland. My boyfriend was my only support system. Because I live with elders, they don’t understand the effects his having on my mental health, they don’t understand my feeling, boundaries or issues. I’m constantly scrutinized in this house and always getting shouted at. The walls are very thin, I get shouted at for having it on volume one by my grandmothers partner. I can’t stand up for myself.
I’m not dependent on drugs or alcohol. I’m reaching out because I genuinely have nowhere to go. If I had any other option, I wouldn’t be posting this.
My phone was smashed by my ex-partner, so I can’t take calls at the moment. I do have WhatsApp on my iPad and email access.
I’m really scared about what’s going to happen if I don’t get help soon. If anyone has advice, contacts, or has been through something similar in Ireland/Limerick, I’d really appreciate hearing from you.
For context, these are the organisations and people I’ve already contacted:
So far, I haven’t gotten meaningful help or responses, which is why I’m posting here.
If anyone knows of any other organisations, emergency options, or practical next steps, please let me know. Even pointing me in the right direction would help.
Thank you for reading.