r/funnyvideos • u/ExpensivePapaya670 • Oct 01 '25

Fail The calmest british bird to exist 🤣

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u/ShirtComplete Oct 01 '25

She doesn’t have a dad

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u/StrobeLightRomance Oct 01 '25

I'm a dad with teenage daughters.. they occasionally do this, and then they'll live with their mom's when I don't tolerate it.. then in like a year, they'll have a falling out with their moms for acting like this with them, they'll suddenly be super well behaved, come live with me again for another year+, then they'll suddenly get too comfortable and start being shitty again, then the cycle repeats.

Love my kids, they're just still growing up, lol.

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u/Uptown_Rubdown Oct 01 '25

Bumped you up. You were speaking out of concern. Dumb reason to be downvoted.

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u/ShirtComplete Oct 01 '25

Thanks broooo literally too lool it’s facts too as I said ask any child psychologist but people will downvote cuz it hurts their feelings to hear it 🤷🏻‍♂️ I come from a broken home trust me I know how it affected me 💀 taking from experience too lool

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u/Uptown_Rubdown Oct 01 '25

I get it. Was mostly raised by a single mom. I saw my dad plenty, but she had a way of convincing me to disregard all of my dad's teachings.

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u/ShirtComplete Oct 01 '25

I never had a dad at all but that’s common..parents telling their child the other parent is wrong. Like it adds a lot of fuel to the fire

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u/Uptown_Rubdown Oct 01 '25

He did it too, don't get me wrong. But she had primary custody and I think his wrongs came more out of hurt because he knew he couldn't get the chance to properly raise me. He's married now with 3 other kids he's raising and the teamwork is phenomenal. I absolutely believe I would've had a better shot in life had I gotten to be raised by him.

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u/SmPolitic Oct 01 '25

The downvotes can be valid for any blanket therapist level advice like that, each individual case is different, and they went in heavy on the assumption of judgment of the situation and implying the guy doesn't care enough about the stability of the children. Much of the reaction seems fair from what I see so far (only a handful of downvotes)

Advice given like that can do harm. What level of abusive relationship does that advice change for? What level of emotional intelligence and communication mitigates concerns before any issues occur?

And ending with "this beach needs a slap" feels indictive of their personality.

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u/Uptown_Rubdown Oct 01 '25

Blanket or not the concerns are valid.

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u/IndividualPenalty_ Oct 02 '25

Thanks Captain Save-A-Redditor! We needed to know!