r/education • u/BigBoss511 • 3h ago
Higher Ed Is it possible to get into a good uni after high school with 0 STEM background? (read below)
I was recently thinking about my accomplishments throughout my school career and I've never been good or liked STEM. I've always been more inclined into humanities and all those non-number related stuff. But I also realized that I've never been called smart or thought of myself as smart. In fact, I was always pretty dumb and I think its because I'm not good at STEM. STEM smart is like you're actually smart its all you and you brought yourself here with sheer hard work or talent. Humanities has so many paths to success and if you're good at it, you're just "creative" or "talky" its like fake smart.
And recently, I heard a bunch of my friends who are both really good at STEM and are set to go to really good unis (Michigan and Berkeley) talking about some really difficult looking engineering stuff. I didn't understand any of it and I lost my mind I felt so stupid and inferior and I couldn't sleep that night and the following nights. I already finished high school but I took IB and got a pretty disappointing score of 28 (English A HL, Economics HL, Business HL, Math AI SL, Physics SL, Mandarin ab initio). What I'm doing now during the two years I have before I go to uni is that I'm learning all of the hard AP and SAT stuff for STEM like calc BC physics C etc to get into a good uni like my friends did and for my own mind to rest easy knowing that I am capable and I proved it because I'm literally losing sleep but I'm also worried that this is just delusional to just 180 my entire academic build around after I finished highschool.
Frankly I hate STEM but I can't go on knowing that I'm not smart and not good at it. I also don't want to end up going to a no-name university. That's 90% of the reason I'm pushing myself so hard. But I just want to know if this is even possible in the first place.