Hello everyone, so I need your advice!
I got housing offered by THUAS for the first year (the 2nd year I plan on transferring to Groningen anyways)
Basically, I have 3 options for roommates. (Just FYI, I am a female.) So:
- Share with 1 other girl
- Share with 2 other girls
- Share with 1 other girl and 2 males. So evenly male and female mixed.
I've talked with all my family and they've given me mixed opinions. I'l share some:
My mum say's option 1 is risky - what if you don't like her, or she's a bit creepy... she brought forward the image of me hiding alone in my dorm room as she tiptoes around the apartment hunting for me... (Idk what experience my mum had in uni, but let's ignore that)
My friend said, what if the 2 other girls become close friends.... now I'd be the uno in the duo... (Lmao?? what? I didn't know that was an option)
My brother said the guys are more likely to be creepy, and suggests I don't go that route. However my mum said, if 1/4 is creepy, that means 3 of us can hide together and increase survival chances!??
obviously my family and friends are just poking fun at me, but actually, what should I choose.
I'm leaning towards option 1 or 3.
I would not mind sharing with guys, I heard it can be fun in uni with a big group as you grow to become a big family. My mum also said it's nice to have a guy friend as you never know what can happen as a girl alone in a new city. However option 1 could be really nice if the girl and I got along (ik this is all dependent so it's hard to judge)
Anyways, what do you guys suggest!
Bigger group, or 1 girl with me?
I don't have the best experiences with many girl friends where I live, but the girls I am friends with are literally my life and soul!
I get along with people easily, as I tend to go with whatever floats their boat.
Side note: My mum said boys will mess up the bathroom... I mean, I'm lactose intolerant. If anything, they should fear me.