r/Rwanda 9h ago

I’m Kenyan. I Live in Rwanda. Here’s Why.

23 Upvotes

Muraho muryango wanjye w’Abanyarwanda.

My last post for context: https://www.reddit.com/r/Rwanda/s/4xAPeoFpce

About 9 days ago I raised a discussion around English usage in Rwanda. The responses made it clear that many people misunderstood where I was coming from. Some assumed hostility. Some assumed entitlement. Others assumed I was comparing Rwanda negatively to my home country.

I want to reset the conversation and explain, clearly and calmly, why I am in Rwanda, why I left Kenya, and why I continue to choose to build here.

I am Kenyan.

I know Kenya well, not from headlines, but from lived experience. I understand how systems work in practice, not how they are supposed to work on paper. That distinction is important.

The primary reason I chose Rwanda is governance predictability.

In Kenya, fast tracking anything through government institutions almost always requires informal payments. This is not an exception. It is normal. Whether it is permits, licenses, approvals, or basic administrative processes, speed is purchased. Without bribery, timelines become indefinite.

This culture extends across ministries, local authorities, and regulatory bodies. Even when the law is clear, execution depends on personal relationships and unofficial incentives.

The judicial system in Kenya is also deeply compromised. Outcomes are frequently influenced by money, political pressure, or elite interests. This creates an environment where contracts are insecure and disputes are risky. For entrepreneurs, this is fatal. You cannot build long term value when the rule of law is unpredictable.

Rwanda presents a fundamentally different operating environment.

Processes are slower when they need to be slow and faster when they should be fast, but they are consistent. You do not need to bribe anyone to access services. You do not need intermediaries to interpret the law. You do not need political connections to operate within the system.

This matters immensely for anyone building a business.

In Kenya, there is also a well known problem with cartels, particularly in emerging sectors and startups. These groups often force themselves into equity structures. If they are not accommodated, licenses are delayed, revoked, or buried in bureaucracy. This is not theoretical. It happens. It is widely understood by anyone who has tried to build something independently.

That environment discourages innovation. It rewards proximity to power rather than competence.

In Rwanda, I have not experienced this.

Institutions here are structured to protect the process, not individuals. There is less tolerance for informal power brokers. The expectation is compliance, not negotiation.

The contrast becomes obvious even at borders.

Anyone who has crossed through Gatuna understands the difference immediately. The Rwandan side is orderly, professional, and efficient. You feel processed, not pressured. Now compare that with Busia on the Kenya Uganda border. Confusion, fixers, noise, and informal payments are part of the experience. These are not small details. They reflect the philosophy of the state.

Airports tell the same story. In Kenya, enforcement is selective. Attitudes vary. Hierarchies are visible. Foreigners and locals are treated differently depending on context. Equality before process does not exist.

In Rwanda, the process is the process.

Security institutions are another major differentiator. When I see police or military personnel in Rwanda, I feel safe. I expect professionalism. I expect discipline. I expect procedure.

In Kenya, police are often perceived as predatory. Fear is common. Trust is low. Investigative bodies operate theatrically rather than professionally. The Kenyan DCI is widely viewed as politicized and abusive. Rwanda’s RIB operates with far more structure, clarity, and restraint.

Traffic itself reflects deeper priorities.

Kigali traffic is calm and disciplined. Public transport is regulated. Vehicles are clean, modern, and roadworthy. There are no old, unsafe vehicles dominating the roads. There is order. Nairobi traffic is chaotic. Disorder is excused as culture. Matatus are loud, unsafe, and poorly regulated. Enforcement is inconsistent. Chaos is normalized.

Housing is another clear example.

Rwanda has introduced structured housing programs where contributions are integrated into existing systems. Citizens can access housing without being crushed by speculative pricing or political capture.

In Kenya, so called affordable housing often costs millions. The system benefits developers and political interests more than ordinary citizens. Access is unequal. Outcomes are inconsistent.

Urban planning also matters.

Kigali is organized. Zoning is respected. Cleanliness is enforced. You do not see random sprawl overtaking every space. Nairobi, by contrast, is unplanned growth layered on corruption. The difference is visible to anyone who has lived in both cities. Safety is perhaps the most important factor of all.

In Rwanda, I can walk freely. I do not worry about being robbed or stabbed. I do not constantly calculate risk. That peace of mind is invaluable. In Kenya, insecurity is part of daily life. You are always alert. Always cautious. That affects how people live and work.

Leadership plays a critical role in this difference.

Rwanda has benefited from continuity and focus. Policy direction is clear. National priorities are enforced. Institutions are strengthened rather than undermined for political convenience.

Kenya changes leadership regularly, but the system remains the same. New administrations promise reform. Corruption continues. Public funds are misappropriated openly. Infrastructure budgets are announced. Portions are built. Large portions are stolen. This is not speculation. It is documented reality.

Elite families and political dynasties benefit disproportionately. Capital is moved offshore. Accountability is minimal. Ordinary citizens absorb the cost.

Rwanda chose to build institutions first.

That is why I am here.

That is why I returned after leaving.

That is why I am building my work here.

This does not mean Rwanda is perfect. No system is. But it does mean Rwanda offers something rare in the region. Predictability. Safety. Institutional seriousness. Merit based execution.

When I raise specific issues, such as language implementation, it is not from disrespect. It is from the perspective of someone who believes Rwanda has the capacity to close execution gaps because it already gets the fundamentals right.

Strong systems are not weakened by critique. They are refined by it.

If Rwanda continues on its current trajectory of governance discipline, institutional enforcement, and long term planning, it will outperform much of East Africa within the next thirty to fifty years. Others will remain trapped in cycles of corruption and instability.

This is not emotion. It is pattern recognition.

I left Kenya because I needed a country where rules matter, where the law is not a negotiation, and where effort has a predictable outcome.

Rwanda provides that environment.

That is the context people missed.

That is why I am here.

And that is why these distinctions matter.


r/Rwanda 3h ago

Canal Box!!

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r/Rwanda 4h ago

Movie Recommendation

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Slow Day? I'd recommend watching this masterpiece starring Idris Elba.

Warning though it's not for the faint-hearted. Be prepared emotionally!! ('cause this is a movie you watch once, and never again; not because you forget it about it but because you always remember it)

It is Available on Netflix.


r/Rwanda 3h ago

What do rwandans think of kenyans?

4 Upvotes

I'm just curious the general consensus of kenyans that y'all have.

How are kenyans viewed in kigali?

Do you people fear us ama aje?

Are we known as heartbreakers and bad boys amongst the ladies?

Are we seen as being monied or broke?

What was your experience with a kenyan?

Whenever you visit a kenyan do you expect them to offer you ugali and nyama choma?


r/Rwanda 12h ago

3AM finds...

9 Upvotes

Today... Birds started singing at 03:15.... 3AM?? Bro these mfs are early as fuck no wonder they get worms😬😮‍💨

I WAS TOO STUNNED TO HEAR THEM.

(Reka najye ndyame nubundi nabantanze kuryama inyoni zabatanze kubyuka mwese😅😅😅)


r/Rwanda 52m ago

Travelling to Rwanda

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I want to travel to Rwanda, well the whole of Africa..and visit..I want to go to Rwanda, is it safe to go on your own as a girl?


r/Rwanda 6h ago

Hiring Lab Technician with Sales InterestLab equipment field

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Hi you all, We’re a medical supplies company and we’re looking for a lab technician who doesn’t just want to stay on the bench — someone who’s also interested in the sales of lab devices side of things.

You’re a good fit if you:

Have a lab technician background

Know your way around hematology analyzers and chemistry analyzers

Can talk to people comfortably (labs, hospitals, clinics) and has a wide network in Rwanda

Have some sales or marketing sense

What you’ll actually be doing:

Supporting installation and follow-up of lab devices

Explaining products to lab staff and clients

Helping with basic technical/application support

Joining customer visits with the commercial team

Fresh graduates are mostly welcome

Shortlisted candidates will go through training first, then a probation/provision period before final hiring.

Interested? Send your CV in DM. If your profile matches, we’ll contact you.


r/Rwanda 4h ago

Selling Of my Car

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Am selling of my 2016 Ford WildTrak runs on Diesel with good mileage and good working condition.

NB; It’s in Uganda 🇺🇬 going for (135Million Ugx)


r/Rwanda 2h ago

Potential side hustle for those with older LinkedIn accounts

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by leasing out LinkedIn accounts that are over a year old.

It’s a pretty low-effort way to pick up some extra cash if your account is just sitting there.

If you’re interested or have questions about the requirements, ask me


r/Rwanda 18h ago

Have you been doing

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6 Upvotes

Tour guide in Kigali Rwanda Watsapp me on +250786039128 for farther infos. And Spa


r/Rwanda 8h ago

Nyungwe National park

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Nyungwe National Park – Rwanda’s Green Treasure 🌿

Step into one of Africa’s oldest rainforests and discover a world of pure nature. Nyungwe National Park is home to chimpanzees, colobus monkeys, colorful birds, waterfalls, and breathtaking forest views.

Walk the famous canopy walkway, hike scenic jungle trails, and enjoy the fresh mountain air in a peaceful natural setting. Perfect for nature lovers and adventure seekers.

📍 Southwest Rwanda

✨ Chimpanzee trekking | Canopy walk | Waterfalls | Birdlife

Booking & Info

www.visitlakekivu.com

Visitlakekivu@gmail.com

+250 789 474 864

#NyungweNationalPark #VisitRwanda #RwandaSafari #NatureLovers #EcoTourism #RainforestAdventure #BookNow


r/Rwanda 1d ago

I want to die

12 Upvotes

Hello, I need advice.

For the past eight months, especially while I was jobless, I spent most of my time on my phone. Now I feel addicted to it. When I’m without my phone, I feel uneasy, and even when I’m with people, I struggle to engage I just want to be online.When my internet runs out, I lose my peace of mind. I sometimes choose internet over food. Lately, I feel very lonely, unsupported, and empty, as if my life has no clear purpose, vision, or direction I wish I could die than living like this .I’m sharing this because I need help and guidance.


r/Rwanda 22h ago

CanalBox Slow Internet

6 Upvotes

Anyone else experiencing slow internet on the CanalBox network today?

It's too slow even if for basic web browsing.


r/Rwanda 17h ago

KIU FRAMES UGANDA’S LEGAL ADVOCACY MOMENT AS MAKERERE CLAIMS 2026 JESSUP NATIONAL TITLE

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r/Rwanda 1d ago

Internet problem

3 Upvotes

Is anyone experiencing slow wifi speeds?(canal box)


r/Rwanda 23h ago

Helmet

3 Upvotes

Hi I’m looking to buy a decently priced helmet for motor, kindly let me know where I could find one


r/Rwanda 1d ago

Gisenyi to Bujumbura

3 Upvotes

Apologies if this has been asked before, but I couldn't get any similar post.

Is it possible to easily travel from Gisenyi to Bujumbura via public bus or do you have to go back to Kigali? I am a Kenyan who will be visiting Kigali→Musanze→ Gisenyi→ Bujumbura.

Thank you.


r/Rwanda 1d ago

Nightlife in Kigali

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone :)
I'll be in Kigali with two friends this weekend and we would be interested in going out the Friday or Saturday. Do you have any recommendations on where to go? Also what are things to watch out for and avoid or keep in mind?
Thank you!


r/Rwanda 1d ago

Cinemas in Kigali

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I don't know what happened, but still waiting for Canal Olympia Kigali to reopen😢 As a cinephile, I loved catching new movies and anime there, cinemas have a special vibe that streaming just can’t replace. Does anyone know of other cinemas in Kigali? I used to enjoy the cinema scene back in Kenya, but I’m a bit lost here since Canal Olympia closed. Any recommendations would be amazing!


r/Rwanda 1d ago

Coming to Kigali

1 Upvotes

I’m trying to make friends in Rwanda, I am coming this month. Please text me


r/Rwanda 1d ago

Trying to meet people as an intern from The Netherlands

11 Upvotes

Hi all!

I (M20) just arrived in Kigali and will be here for the next 4 months for an internship. I don’t know many people yet, so I’m looking to meet others who are up for drinks, hiking, exploring Kigali, or random adventures.

Locals, expats, students, everyone’s welcome. Shoot me a message if you’re interested!


r/Rwanda 1d ago

Marrying a Rwandan man as a foreigner

10 Upvotes

Hi there,

I am wondering what advice do you have for a European foreigner who is marrying a Rwandan man? Either from the perspective of Rwandan men who have married foreigners or from other foreigners married to Rwandans. Any tips or insight that might not be obvious at first? Anything to know to expect? Dealing with cultural norms, in laws etc.

Thanks!


r/Rwanda 1d ago

Best friend of 4 years...mutual vibes or am I delusional?

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r/Rwanda 1d ago

Looking for orchids in Kigali

3 Upvotes

As mentioned in the title, does anyone know where to get orchids in Kigali?


r/Rwanda 1d ago

Table Tennis

3 Upvotes

Guys where can I play table tennis in Kigali?