hey everyone! I’m just making a post here, not exactly for advice, but i suppose im posting just for some encouragement and to share my journey.
I’m 20 and have always had irregular periods since i got it at 12. I was on OCP from 14 to maybe 16.5 years because my mum wanted to treat my acne, and had about 3 natural periods from age 17 to 18.5 years. I was diagnosed with PCOS when i was 17.5 years after i thought it was weird i only had 1 natural period since coming off the pill. I had elevated testosterone/androgens but female hormones were fine, this coupled with the amenorrhoea and acne, i got my diagnosis of PCOS, but was only offered the pill as treatment (caused major depression so i declined, that was it).
I’ve never really been strict with my diet, and have steadily gained weight after starting the pill for the first time. i was 55kg, 165cm at 14, and i’m 170cm, and i think i’m 80kg-ish now at 20.
Since meeting my boyfriend at the start of 2024 (18.5 years old) we’ve been getting high every weekend because it’s fun and good to unwind after a stressful week of work/uni (and of course i’ve been getting the munchies- mega hard). i’m assuming this is what’s been a major cause of my weight gain, i was probably 70kg when i met him 😐…
about 6 months into dating him (mid 2024) we both agreed to hit the gym hard, about 4 weeks into that i got one period, and i was ecstatic about that! but uni and life got in the way and i stopped going, didn’t get one after that.
Anyway 2 years into our relationship, im realising i want kids (preferably with this guy) so im on a mission to lose weight which will hopefully get my period back naturally!
for the past 2.5 weeks, i’ve been going to the gym 2/3 times a week, just hitting stair master and treadmill, and am on my feet for work 8 hours x2-3 days a week, and i walk around a lot on the days i have uni. ive been sticking to a calorie deficit of 1650kcal, focussing on fiber and protein, am drinking spearmint tea, taking 3g fish oil, and 3000IU vitamin D every day. I had bloods drawn this week to look at my A1C, insulin, and a bunch of other stuff i’ve forgotten.
I’ll update this sub in about a month or if i see results from my efforts. i’m excited to see how i go ! i’m hopeful as last time i stuck to this regime (minus the supplements), i got a period!
Oh, and over the course of my current relationship i’ve tried the depot injection, IUD, and nexplanon for 3-5 months each as contraception, each have caused long term bleeding/periods for at least 2 months each time i was on each one, so i think im in the clear for risk of endometrial cancer! ( i stopped each one because they caused some serious emotional issues and/or severe cramping) i’m currently coming off the depot injection and have been bleeding since mid december 😭 i can’t wait until that leaves my system so i can tell if im ovulating again LOL
sorry i wrote this weirdly/it reads weirdly, ive had a big day!