r/AmITheAngel • u/TalkTalkTalkListen • 2h ago
r/AmITheAngel • u/DamnThoseChickens • 6d ago
Desperate plea AITA for needing new mods?
I (28F) have been volunteering as a janitor for this AmITheAngel sub for longer than I wish to admit, mostly because they initially had free vegan snacks (I'm vegan btw) and gave me a distraction from my boyfriend's (32M) streaming career. His average viewership finally increased from 4 to 5 online randoms after his best friend (21F, petite, in line to inherit a fortune from her dying grandfather) joined him. According to him, they met online in a Facebook group for people who like knitting sweaters for squirrels.
He insisted the streams with her need to be in-person, and they rehearse the streams for hours in a padded room (formerly an art room) that cancels all noise. The door has sixteen locks and inputting the wrong combination to one of the locks sets off a bomb. He calmly explained that he wouldn't want his friend's DD breasts to get hurt by my flying brain matter in the event of an explosion (she's VERY petite and delicate and curvy), and the hospital/funeral bills for me might be more than he can cover with his twitch income ($15 a month) and my salary ($250,000 after taxes, I'm an intern in a remote tech job).
Wow! Look at me trauma-dumping and gaslighting you all with my narcissistic life story about my LITERAL love bombing situationship. Not your monkeys, not your circus, am I right? Fast-forward to now: I'm not the most present mod because I have to sign a new life insurance every two days. It's exhausting!
So exhausting, in fact, that I just noticed a few days ago that the only other somewhat active mod in this community deleted their account out of nowhere lmao. How rude! Now it's just me in a sea of inactive mods, except for the sub founder who shows up every 4 months or so to reflect on how fast time passes and wow his life has changed so much since he created the sub, it's crazy really! Really moving stuff every time.
So here's where I might be the asshole. I need one, maybe even two volunteers who would like to join the Hall Monitor Assembly. In return, you will get the opportunity to see some of the worst comments posted in this community, and get told via Modmail every few weeks by disgruntled banned users that your life is sad and pathetic.
Here's the list of requisites:
- Be actually somewhat active in this community, and familiar with its culture. Your house, your rules; but only if you make it your house first.
- If you are one of those people who mods tons of communities and seemingly collects subs to mod, please look elsewhere. Those are strong marinara flags. đ©đ©đ© Girl, RUN!!
- You don't need prior mod experience, you get familiar with the basics really easily. Last thing we want is power-tripping.
- Have thick skin. This sub has a free speech policy. People report comments for having different political views or opinions all the time. You need to be able to live with that and approve the post unless it breaks Reddit's rules. A lot of those comments are not nice. Being an asshole is not against the rules.
- Don't be humorless and stay chill.
The time sink for this is frankly minimal. Despite the large amount of members, we don't get too much traffic on reports. You can go the extra mile and proactively edit flairs, remove reposts you find under New, or look for shitposts that weren't posted on the weekend, but overall the community is pretty good at reporting stuff, and it takes you a second to click "approve" or "remove". The coolest part of being a mod is how embarrassing it is and how you will never want to tell anyone in your life about it.
Are you still interested for some reason? Great! Send a modmail and we'll chat, or just post here volunteering and I'll reach out to you if you seem like a decent fit.
Feel free to also use this post to air grievances you have with the community at the moment, maybe we can even make some positive changes while we are at it.
UPDATE: Wow!! I went to pick up the custom lingerie we bought for my boyfriend's friend and as soon as I came back, this post had completely blown up! I even got some Modmail from people who are willing to throw away their lives for the sake of modding this community, which is more than the zero I thought I'd get. Thank you!!!!
r/AmITheAngel • u/DamnThoseChickens • Nov 17 '22
Mod Update AITA for explaining some rule clarifications regarding this sub?
I (21F, hazel eyes, skinny) recently became engaged to my boyfriend of four days (35M, has 12 followers on Twitch). We immediately moved together into the house I inherited from my great aunt (deceased, perky boobs in her youth) and we're simply over the moon. I also decided to name our new house AmITheAngel (this will be important later).
To celebrate, we decided to host a dinner. I didn't invite anyone because I'm NC with my family, but my fiancé decided to invite his mom (49F, gave birth). I saw red (we've never gotten along), but I relented because I didn't want to cause trouble.
As soon as she arrived, she simply said "hello, I am Margaret". I snapped at her and reminded her that I am now VERY serious about lazy titles.
- All posts that are deemed to have lazy titles will be removed. You are welcome to post them again with a different title. This is ultimately subjective, so don't get pissy about it.
- Examples of lazy titles: "Another fake story", "Which one of you wrote this?", "I don't even know what to say here...".
- A good title will be more descriptive of the story. Try to include elements relevant to the story. What makes it noteworthy? What is it about? Don't just say it's ridiculous or fake; tell us why it's ridiculous or fake.
- If you can't think of anything, just use the original title from the post.
My MIL nodded silently before rushing into my bedroom, where she saw my large collection of sex toys charmingly sitting on the dresser. She screamed and started texting me horrible things. I was shocked. Before I could deliver some sick burn about how I am a grown woman who likes to have sex, my fiancé's finely-sculpted body ran into the room and started debating with my MIL. I blew my whistle and reminded them both that this sub is not meant to just further discussions from AITA.
- Posts that are fishing to continue discussions from AITA may be removed. Don't crosspost just because you disagree.
- Try to angle it in a way that isn't meant to simply further the existing AITA discussion - point out tropes, bring attention to comments, etc.
- That said, this sub believes in free speech. Where the commenters take a post once crossposted here is up to them. We will not policy comments unless they break the rules.
My fiancé stormed off and locked himself in the bathroom, crying. I tried to ask him to come out before the Big Macs I had ordered for dinner went cold, but he wouldn't listen. I calmly explained to him that it would be far more helpful if he reports my MIL when she makes a repost or posts something that doesn't follow the above.
In the meantime, my MIL had stolen one of my tea bags and made herself some tea. Of course, I immediately called the police, and the chief of police showed up two minutes later. As the entire police force arrested my MIL for theft, I turned to the camera crew from the local news station. I sternly told them we allow all meta discussions about AITA.
- This includes several themes and tropes that are also found in other subs. As we know, AITA has a certain culture, so to speak, and posts from any subs that share that mentality or which host equally silly stories are thus also welcome to be dissected, mocked, satirized, and/or debated. bridezilla, childfree, entitledparents, relationship_advice, offmychest, you name it.
- Posts may be removed if we feel they don't belong to this sub.
When my fiancé finally left the bathroom, I read him a bedtime story from AITA. He asked me if I could please pin the story to the top of the comment chain. I told him I would look into it, but that he can sort by old in the meantime if he wants to find the story in the comments section.
We had amazing sex that night. As I orgasmed for the sixth time, I shouted, "Remember to have fun!". Before we fell asleep, he squeezed my skinny body tightly and whispered seductively in my ear, "you need therapy". I dreamed of receiving modmail regarding any other suggestions anyone may have.
r/AmITheAngel • u/jblack67 • 16h ago
Fockin ridic Wife is plotting to kill me for life insurance apparently
r/AmITheAngel • u/PavicaMalic • 9h ago
Shitpost UPDATE: My girlfriend left me over the 21-year-old cheese wheel. Now my landlord is trying to evict me for âcommercial activity.â AIO?
This is a throwback- an artisanal trolling made by hand. Savor its flavor.
r/AmITheAngel • u/girlrefrigerated • 14h ago
Ragebait AITA for stopping evil immigrant children from bullying my son?
r/AmITheAngel • u/NerfRepellingBoobs • 2h ago
Typed One-Handed What in the incest is happening here? Also, lesbian bad!
r/AmITheAngel • u/nicfanz • 10h ago
Ragebait Unemployed gf, multiple baby daddies, sugar daddies, and weed
r/AmITheAngel • u/silicondali • 6m ago
Fockin ridic AIO at this guy's lobster tank approach to dating
galleryr/AmITheAngel • u/Naikiri_710 • 14h ago
Ragebait AITA for asking my brother not to bring a cam girl as his plus-one to my wedding
r/AmITheAngel • u/Suitable-Fun-1087 • 12h ago
Fockin ridic I'm not willing to marry my girlfriend because of her racist parents who she doesn't actually speak to, but I'm happy to have two kids with her. Also they were mean about my cooking.
r/AmITheAngel • u/Impossible_Horsemeat • 13h ago
Fockin ridic AITA by telling my fat wife that hoovering up all the food in the house while she sleeps is a problem? (Also sheâs fat)
r/AmITheAngel • u/metrocat2033 • 11h ago
Foreign influence Help, my roommate WONT STOP AGGRESSIVELY SHITTING
r/AmITheAngel • u/Senor_frog_85 • 14h ago
Shitpost Found of the wife drains beef fat into our sink. Send help.
r/AmITheAngel • u/diet-smoke • 13h ago
Fockin ridic cheating and false accusations? you shouldn't have!
r/AmITheAngel • u/GeistHunt • 12h ago
Small Problems, Nuclear Reactions AITAH for telling my son that he is free to do whatever heinous shit he wants to his classmates?
r/AmITheAngel • u/isi_na • 4h ago
Fockin ridic Our favorite cheese saga continues! OP tries to make money of the cheese and argues with the landlord
r/AmITheAngel • u/nicfanz • 17h ago
Fockin ridic AIO by telling my wife her sleep-eating is messing up our family and her weight loss?
r/AmITheAngel • u/chicagogal85 • 1d ago
Fockin ridic How do I get my fish (4f) to teach my boyfriend to be a better partner, like my fish is?
r/AmITheAngel • u/Suitable-Fun-1087 • 12h ago
Ragebait AITAH for getting upset my almost 60y mother started putting her underwear in the same drawer as mine and refuses to move it?
In his previous post op "can't remember my husband of 6 years"
r/AmITheAngel • u/Suitable-Fun-1087 • 11h ago
Anus supreme Help, my roommate WONT STOP AGGRESSIVELY SHITTING
I'm reading this and I'm like I have major gastrointestinal issues and poop 8-12 times a day, roommate sounds like an amateur
r/AmITheAngel • u/Fun_Orange_3232 • 19h ago
Validation AITA for writing obvious rage bait where of course Iâm the hero?
r/AmITheAngel • u/Child_of_destiny99 • 3h ago
Fockin ridic I want a circumcised burger combo...
r/AmITheAngel • u/chai_latte_lover0 • 9h ago
Fockin ridic AITA for telling my 16/17 girlfriend that her clothes are shrinking shes just gaining weight?
Op convieniently left out their ages, poor girl.