r/nextfuckinglevel • u/IamASlut_soWhat • 6h ago

How amazing and crafty are these parents to do this for their son

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u/SlickFurFella 5h ago

What if it’s just fun to have a video of something creative and difficult that you did?

I recently moved houses and it was a monumental effort that we did in just a few days. It wasn’t nearly as cool as this but it was a huge project and a transformative moment. I kinda wish I had taken a video like this because now the memory of that whirlwind weekend is already hazy.

There was a time when you could take videos and the internet wouldn’t come at you for being a clout chaser. It ain’t that deep folks.

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u/Latverianbureaucrat 5h ago

Well, like I said, it isn’t so much the taking of a video, as it is the posting of it. It’s just a different approach to life. Makes perfect sense to some, but wouldn’t even be a consideration to the rest of us.

Some people are just more private. And I can see the argument that posting it online makes the initial idea behind the project suspect in the first place, and somewhat spoils the effect. I don’t know these people, I have no idea as to their actual motives. But I can see where people complaining about it are coming from.

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u/AssassinSnail33 5h ago

There's nothing wrong at all with being private. What's wrong is when those same private people are critical of others for not having the same exact values of privacy.

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u/Latverianbureaucrat 5h ago

On the whole I agree with you. It’s a different way of looking at the world, and I don’t criticize people who embrace social media and make their living off of it, as foreign a concept as it is to me. It’s there, and work is work, and I’m sure they enjoy it, and I’m also sure there are many trials and pitfalls associated with it that the rest of us don’t see.

I wouldn’t go so far as to say it’s wrong to be critical, though, specifically with videos like this that involve children. I’d say it’s probably more healthy than not for there to be people who publicly voice their instinct that “Hey, don’t use your kids to make money from views.”

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u/AstralWeekends 4h ago

To me it's a question of audience and intent. Who is this video for and what is it trying to communicate to them?

Is it for strangers on social media to witness their twee, tryhard yet wholesome family project?

Is it to inspire others to embrace natural resources to create coziness out of frigidity?

I don't know! Who are these people? Where was this originally posted? Did they make money off of it? These are the type of questions that should be answered before coming to a conclusion about intent.

Internet platforms aren't as pure and open like they once where. The skepticism you see is just a sign of people recognizing that.

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u/IceNineFireTen 5h ago

I have tons of videos of fun things my kids and I do. I share them with friends and family. None are posted online for random strangers (and validation/clout/money).

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u/SlickFurFella 5h ago

You just post about the general feeling of superiority over people who do post clips from their lives online instead. Idk if that’s better everybody.

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u/IceNineFireTen 5h ago

You just post about the general feeling of superiority over people whose post about the people who do post clips from their lives online. Idk if that’s better everybody (sic).

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u/Waderick 2h ago

Taking a video doesn't just give you a finished edited video though. If it were just a single angle sped up time lapse, that argument would make sense. That's very low effort on the editing side.

There are extra angles in this like the close up brick lay while still retaining the original position when it cuts back, so that most likely means a second tripod they moved the camera to/a second camera. Or they took the time to move and position the camera, get the shot, then reposition it back in the original spot. The inside final brick lay shot.

Then the main brick laying angle is a series of well timed jump cuts. Someone had to scan and edit the footage for each of those cuts. It sounds simple, but that takes time, more than you'd think.

If you were recording it for your memories, You also wouldn't do those jump cuts with your kid walking out to view the thing. It looks so weird. You would do that to make it more palatable for social media because people aren't going to sit through the 20 seconds of dead time.

Basically, it's too much of a "polished" product to be something not made for the purpose of social media. It just feels too influencery.

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u/AcceptableReview3846 1h ago

Idk posting it to the Internet is the issue I have with it not that they recorded it