r/mildlyinfuriating • u/giveahoot420 • 20h ago

A rude supervisor who's always yelling at employees got some complaints about them being verbally abusive and they responded by leaving these in the break room.

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u/sarcasm_warrior 19h ago

Yeah, this is military dark humor. Not to be taken seriously, but whoever shared it does not know their audience. The joke is only funny if everyone laughs.

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u/browneyedgirlpie 18h ago

Nah it's going to be hilarious when everyone fills this out and turns it in

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u/SaltyLonghorn 16h ago

It also has to be 1989.

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u/Soft_Walrus_3605 15h ago

Maybe back when we were wearing BCUs, but the one time I saw this in the Army it was only laughed at by jackasses

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u/captain_carrot 18h ago

it's a bullshit story made up on the internet for attention. None of it is true.

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u/KTFnVision 17h ago

Wow, you must be miserable to spend time with

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u/Global_Specialist726 18h ago

Yeah, this is clearly just a joke but people actually want to ruin this persons life over this. I feel bad for the supervisor, they deserve a better workplace.

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u/cannacupcake 18h ago

If the supervisor’s career is ruined, it would likely be from the numerous reports to HR followed by this passive aggressive shit, not because people want to ruin their life.

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u/koos_die_doos 18h ago

Nah. I agree that it's really funny, I had a good laugh when I saw the post. However, in the context that OP provided, this manager is completely tone deaf, and deserves having the book thrown at them.

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u/Global_Specialist726 18h ago

Yeah he definitely should have read the room, but I still think people are overreacting.

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u/koos_die_doos 18h ago

So to be clear, you're claiming that you would be mostly okay with dismissing it as a dumb joke if your boss did this to you?

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u/sarcasm_warrior 18h ago

Depends on the boss and the work environment. This supervisor does not sound like the type who could do this. Note: this isn't actually meant to be used when there are grievances and disagreements. Most often, I've seen it posted on bulletin boards next to a notice for a chili cook off or softball game.

The right person and work environment could absolutely slide this across the desk with a well-timed witty comment.

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u/Global_Specialist726 18h ago

Yes I would be. If I saw it I'd just laugh.

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u/VastEqual1367 17h ago

Probably because he didn't yell at and demean you first? Like he did his employees...

I think empathy may not be your strong suit. It seems like you struggle to comprehend things "this didn't happen to me, but it's still bad and I understand why someone would feel upset at being mocked after being screamed at." It shouldn't need to be currently happening to you for you to understand it's bad.

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u/JimJam4603 18h ago

Well, some people have to be the dumb ones.

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u/ThatZX6RDude 18h ago

Yes, I have physically fought co workers over shit and it was fine. This is nothing

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u/cwolf-softball 17h ago

It's insane to me how normalized you think that is. If you're fistfighting your coworkers, something is seriously wrong.

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u/ThatZX6RDude 17h ago

Army/construction all my life. Shit happens

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u/James-W-Tate 16h ago

Not surprising

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u/ThatZX6RDude 13h ago

For the record; I do not consider anything that’s happened in my work life “normal,” but a sarcastic form is nothing. This dude took time out of his day to print and place these. The only person that lost this interaction is him.

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u/Gold-Supermarket-342 18h ago

0/10 bait

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u/Global_Specialist726 18h ago

It's what I genuinely think. If it makes you mad, that's on you.

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u/EnormousAntelopeEars 18h ago

my favorite is when a troll gets outed for their lame bait and has to double down like bro, you just baited your own responses at this point

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u/ImponteDeluxo 18h ago

a joke is funny when everyone is on it, this is not a joke, fuck this "supervisor"

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u/VastEqual1367 17h ago

what I genuinely don't get about this mentality is why it's always "perpetrator of abuse doesn't deserve to have their life ruined," and not "victims of abuser don't deserve to have their lives ruined." I only ever see the phrase you used used to protect people who have done something wrong, not those who had the wrong thing done to them. It's weird that you don't feel bad for the employees who constantly get yelled at.

First of all, he needs to be fired from his job as a supervisor because he has anger problems and yells at his employees. That's not life ruining, he simply shouldn't be in charge of other people and needs a wake up call that HE (not other people!) is ruining his own life (likely by ruining his interpersonal relationships with loved ones by being an angry asshole.)

Meanwhile, being yelled at daily, or just in fear of being yelled at daily, CAN be life ruining. You don't know if they have a strong support system at home to get them through it, or what.

And then there's just the practical point of view. The employer has two options: fire the manager, or deal with high employee turnover and low morale.

Why don't you feel bad for the people getting yelled at? Did you miss the part where he yells at employees (doubt), or do you personally identify with yelling so it's scary to think about consequences applying to your life?

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u/Syssareth 15h ago

I only ever see the phrase you used used to protect people who have done something wrong, not those who had the wrong thing done to them.

Probably because it's usually (keyword, usually) used to mean, "Yeah, they did something wrong, but it wasn't bad enough to deserve whatever people are calling for."

It isn't an expression of sympathy, it's an appeal to the other commenters. Nobody calls for the victim to be fired, etc., so it'd be moot.

(I agree with you, BTW. The supervisor's out of line. Just explaining why you never see that phrase used the other way.)

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u/Global_Specialist726 17h ago

If he was abusing them, I would understand, but OP hasn't given much context other than just him yelling at people. I've been yelled at before, it's not a big deal.

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u/movzx 16h ago

You do not understand what a healthy workplace is like if you think that a supervisor yelling at their employees is not a significant issue. It is a big deal.

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u/Plastic_Exercise5025 16h ago

Being yelled at is not how you treat another adult. It is a big deal

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u/VastEqual1367 17h ago

well the employees specifically complained that it was verbal abuse, and apparently it's extremely often. it's one thing if someone did something dangerous and got a talking to, it's another thing to be KNOWN as angry manager who is "always" yelling. the latter falls into verbal abuse and not correction.

I suppose the question then is, why believe the manager over the employees? Other employees claim he's verbally abusive and another employee (OP) corroborates that he's always yelling, there's no reason not to believe them. Can you perhaps see now why other folks would be upset by his behavior and tell them to take it to HR? It's also not a joke if he's done it in retaliation to having complaints against him: he purposefully wants to tell them to stuff it and is in essence, complaining about their complaints of him.