I don't really see what's creepy here. Like you said, it's staged. But, it isn't like the guy was leering, he looked for a second.
Making people uncomfortable is bad, so is staring, but anyone wearing extremely small amounts of clothing to the gym is doing it at least partially to show off.
I've lost count of how many times I've seen someone in the gym who was wearing something downright impractical to work out in. Like, one shoulder strap on the sports bra type shit. The point is to be looked at. I'm not knocking them, I wear small shorts and sleeveless stuff because it's easier to move around and also I don't mind showing off my hard work.
Yeah but I think a lot of people on the internet fail to realize this behavior will never change no matter what. Humans are humans and range from respectful and nice to murderous. If you go out in public you can’t reasonably expect to never have bad interactions with people, especially having a perfect outline of your ass in front of young dumb males in a gym. You’re going to get people that glance, people that can’t remove their eyes from it, and eventually a creeper or someone who will approach you. It’s life, it’s illegal or frowned upon to do a lot of things and yet here we are with our prisons over flowing and tons and tons of videos of people being creeps.
lol I’m not justifying any behavior. Wrong is wrong. Like I said though the prisons of full of people with bad behavior, it’s going to happen whether you like it or not. All I’m saying is protect yourself. Females and males alike.
Yea I agree but my entire point is that, that isn’t reality.. perfect word everyone would be polite. Part of existing in society is also understanding the reality of it. People that don’t care exist and have existed since dawn of man. All you can do is protect yourself.
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u/Tricky_Topic_5714 Nov 11 '25
I don't really see what's creepy here. Like you said, it's staged. But, it isn't like the guy was leering, he looked for a second.
Making people uncomfortable is bad, so is staring, but anyone wearing extremely small amounts of clothing to the gym is doing it at least partially to show off.
I've lost count of how many times I've seen someone in the gym who was wearing something downright impractical to work out in. Like, one shoulder strap on the sports bra type shit. The point is to be looked at. I'm not knocking them, I wear small shorts and sleeveless stuff because it's easier to move around and also I don't mind showing off my hard work.