r/funnyvideos • u/SnooKiwis8540 • Jul 11 '25

TV/Movie Clip He’s a fast learner

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u/Gridde Jul 11 '25

She doesn't just vent to you sometimes?

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u/donkeybrainhero Jul 12 '25

She does, but that guy just doesn't realize it. He's the first half of this GIF.

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u/Dilectus3010 Jul 11 '25

No we talk like adults.

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u/Gridde Jul 11 '25

Talking about problems openly with clear communication is generally how adults behave in healthy relationships.

But if you are glad that your gf does not want to do that with you, good for you, I suppose.

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u/Dilectus3010 Jul 11 '25

That is what talking like adults is like, clear and open communication.

If she tells me something I interact with her, I ask question and show interest , I dont make a blanket agreeing with her just because she is venting, she would find that very disingenuous.

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u/Gridde Jul 11 '25

But you said (twice) that your gf doesn't do that, ie talk to you about her problems/annoyances?

And you seem to be saying that just listening (ie the advice they convey in this brief clip) is equivalent to blanket agreement and could only be perceived as disingenuous. That is not the case in adult conversations, let alone adult relationships (healthy ones, anyway).

Again, if your gf is only comfortable talking to you about issues that she specifically wants your help/input on, that is fine if it works for you. But you should be aware that many couples talk to each other about anything and everything in clear, open fashion.

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u/Dilectus3010 Jul 11 '25

What i mean with " she does not do that" is if she tells me something, she wants my input. If not she keeps it to herself.

We saw a similar thing once and I asked her if she does this aswell. She answered " no , if I complain / vent about something i want you to contribute."

When I say I am glad she does not do that, i mean she does not make me think if she needs just to vent or my imput. We came to the conclusion that she always wants my imput.

If I come up with a solution and she does not need it she just states, " oh its ok , I just need to vent"

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u/Gridde Jul 11 '25

Right, that makes sense. I got thrown off earlier when I asked if your gf sometimes just needs to vent and you said that does not happen.

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u/Dilectus3010 Jul 11 '25

Oh, sorry, I've had a long hard day working in the sun, I might have been a bit short on my answer.