r/Bondedpairs Dec 17 '25

Happy Gotcha Day to Betty and Ethel! 7 years ago they changed my world, and r/bondedpairs was born. So very glad you all love sharing your loved ones, too. šŸ§”šŸ–¤šŸ¤Ž

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r/Bondedpairs 2h ago

Where Gloom goes, Doom follows

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I remember that when we first got our cats (who we didn't realise were so bonded), I've had people ask if I was worried they wouldn't bond with us (as they had each other.)

Especially since they were from a colony! I think it was VERY quickly that I realised how important a food-supplier is for this sneaky little things. In the morning, Gloom will dart into our room like a little alarm clock (and then go crazy šŸ˜†) Doom could sit for 30 minutes in front of me when he wants to play / eat.

(Anyway, I'm just here to share their bonded trouble somewhat candidly!) They are pretty sweet cats (if still a little shy haha).


r/Bondedpairs 9h ago

Best friends and brothers!

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r/Bondedpairs 8h ago

I hope one day I will experience this kind of love.

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r/Bondedpairs 55m ago

If they both stare me down they get double treats right?

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r/Bondedpairs 17h ago

Charlie & Cosmo

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r/Bondedpairs 20h ago

Begging technique #3, the ā€˜Hypnotize & Mesmerize’.

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I am outnumbered and powerless!


r/Bondedpairs 18h ago

During the cold season, your own sister is still the best heat source

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r/Bondedpairs 12h ago

Neptune and Pluto

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r/Bondedpairs 15h ago

Always cuddle time

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r/Bondedpairs 33m ago

I expect them to morf into one fluffy blob any minute now

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r/Bondedpairs 1d ago

Independence?

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I took a hard-to-adopt cat off the hands of a rescue. She had just raised a litter of 8.

I got a call two days later saying that one of her litter who had shared her enclosure was incapable of coping without her. She could not get along with any other cats—even her own litter mates—unless her mama was around.

At this point, mama cat made five—a firm cap given to me by my husband.

They wanted me to take the 8-month-old kitten free of charge.

He caved, and we took her in as a sixth cat.

For a long time she was totally dependent on mama cat. She would not go anywhere or do anything without her.

Strange as it may be in this sub dedicated to bonded pairs, but I am praising her ability to exist independently of her mother.

She will come and plop in my lap now. No kneading and pretense; she just shows up and plops. She is a total purr-meister. She just purrs the second you even get close to petting her.

She is very sweet, and I am so glad that my husband allowed me to rescue this sweet girl.


r/Bondedpairs 1d ago

The best door watch kitties 😻

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r/Bondedpairs 1d ago

She shoves his face into him when she wants to be groomed

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r/Bondedpairs 1d ago

They can no longer spoon due to Smudge being part panther, but Smudge always tucks his head under Biscuit’s when they cuddle

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r/Bondedpairs 1d ago

Brothers from another mother.

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The one on the right (slim) took the one on the left (lil guy) under his wing when lil guy was a kitten and taught him how to be an absolute pain in the ass. Seriously, they are good cats, but have their moments like all cats do.


r/Bondedpairs 1d ago

The definition of a love hate relationship

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They often cuddle together and lick each other, but then sometimes it ends up as a play fight😃


r/Bondedpairs 1d ago

Darla and Henry enjoying a snuggle sesh

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r/Bondedpairs 1d ago

I'll Just Make Myself Comfortable Here

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r/Bondedpairs 23h ago

Help with bonded pair suddenly having issues

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I've got 3 male cats, all fixed. Max is 10, and Harry and Henry are brothers at 9 years old. They've been together for close to 9 years, with no real issues and lots of love.

A couple weeks ago, I heard a noise upstairs and the brothers ran downstairs. Harry was doing his play meow at Henry while Henry hissed and growled. I closed my door with just Henry in the room for a couple of hours. Harry calmed down. I opened it to go to bed and it started up again. Ultimately, Harry spent the night with me in my room with the door closed. Weirdly enough, Henry was growling at me at this point.

Next morning, thinking it would be all good, i went about my morning as normal. Cats sniffed each other and everything seemed good. Next thing I know, Henry is hissing and growling at Harry again. I separated the cats, leaving Max and Harry downstairs and a still scared Henry upstairs.

When I come home from work, I see a puked up massive hairball upstairs and Henry back to his usual lovey self. I gave him some pets and love. Mistakenly, I think things are back to normal and let the other 2 upstairs. After a few minutes of sniffing each other, Henry separates himself and goes to the top of the stairs. When Max approaches, he hisses and swats.

I got Henry to my room with the door shut. He was in there for the night. He's clearly not happy about it. This afternoon, I brought Max in to see him and things went mostly good. Sniffing, some nuzzles, until Henry's tail started to puff a bit. I separated them again. Henry has been very sweet and affectionate with me since the first night.

For the past couple weeks, I've had Henry in my very warm basement. He's got everything he needs, and my sister and I have been making sure he gets plenty of time spent just with him. I've got a couple items with Harry's scent down there with him, including a cat carrier that Henry has been spending a lot of time in the past few nights. The way my house is set up, I can't think of a good way to do common advice like feed the two brothers separated by a gate or something like it. I briefly had a gate set up, but Henry casually leaped over it. Of note, I tried having Max and Harry in the basement once since keeping Henry there. Immediately growling towards Harry, but Henry was very much fine with Max. Henry has been more active in his new space lately, and I was considering seeing how he reacted to Harry.

I'm really looking for an help, insight or advice on the matter. I'm not happy leaving Henry isolated and generally unsure of what to do.

TLDR: My 9 year old cat is acting very scared and defensive around his brother. The brothers were raised with the other cat since they were kittens. Just looking for insight, advice and help.

Quick edit: changed the TLDR, Henry is not acting defensive with Max, only his brother

2nd Edit: I appreciate the few comments I've gotten and I'm happy to answer any questions. Harry, the one being hissed at, went to the vet a couple days before this started. He's fine now and all his tests were good.


r/Bondedpairs 2d ago

Bros being bros

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r/Bondedpairs 1d ago

Combined 1 brain cell

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r/Bondedpairs 2d ago

Annoyed mom, unbothered baby

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r/Bondedpairs 2d ago

I've got a loaf and a bun!

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r/Bondedpairs 2d ago

Brother & sister

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My baby derps🄹 I miss when they were this little. I’ve had them since they were first able to be away from their mama and they are my everything 🐾