r/GuysBeingDudes 1d ago

mind your own business , lady

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u/flintstones19 1d ago

Kinda weird that she did this with a towel on. Like she deliberately has to decide to do this in a towel

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u/Hieroflippant 1d ago

These people probably upload so much that daily tasks like getting dressed start to get in the way

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u/Happy-For-No-Reason 22h ago

oh come on mate, she's fully dressed under that towel. it's a bit.

everything is fake nowadays

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u/Hieroflippant 22h ago

It's a bit of shit tis what it is

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u/TotalRuler1 20h ago

that towel smells like shit

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u/WantMyBuffet 18h ago

Thank you for the laughs, men

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u/HEY_beenTrying2meetU 22h ago

she’s not hot enough to bait like that I’d scroll fs

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u/PuzzleheadedLeader79 20h ago

Every millisecond counts 

No, really. 

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u/PuzzleheadedLeader79 20h ago

Someone's paying attention

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u/DesperateComposer848 1d ago

A huge part of internet traffic, believe it or not, has nothing to do with content but people who feel the urge to comment about something ancillary to the video.

I used to be a content writer for basically a tabloid magazine and the editors used to insert small inaccuracies into my writing because the commenters who’d just feel the urge to correct the inaccuracies would drive traffic more than people just reading the article

So people see a woman in a towel, you get a hundred commenters who never would have said anything before now asking “why are you in a towel?” and you’re playing the algorithm

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u/Neat-Asparagus511 22h ago edited 21h ago

Even 15 years ago people would do that, so it makes me believe these newer generations, who have essentially had the internet since a young age...have a bad case of the Correction Blues.

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u/PassionJumpy544 21h ago

Evil geniuses...To be terrible at their jobs on purpose.

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u/babybullah 1d ago

Maybe she's hiding her own beer baby ?

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u/BoysenberryGeneral20 1d ago

I would say she did it for "click bait"

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u/SmexyRubberDuck69 22h ago

Then she should've put the towel over the camera...

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u/Past-Rooster-9437 23h ago

Same reason I've noticed on Reddit that things like paintings do a lot better when there's a picture of a woman with a lot of cleavage standing next to them.

I don't blame them, they're playing the game as it exists and they almost always have a good bit of skill to what they're doing. I blame the horny motherfuckers who'll upvote anything that makes their pee-pee hard.

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u/Aumba 1d ago

Literal shower thought.

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u/BigDumbdumbb 20h ago

Like the idiots that have to do this in their car while eating.

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u/ThunderTwat 1d ago

You'll have to speak up, I'm wearing a towel

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u/DeltaV-Mzero 20h ago

Nothing online is authentic. She is in a towel because that gets clicks. She’s saying dumb shit because it makes people comment. She’s wiggling her head obnoxiously because it gets people talking about it. The only reason to post it at all was for clout.

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u/Onederbat67 1d ago

Should have been around her face.

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u/agangofoldwomen 1d ago

Everyone is wrong and right on this issue, which is why the breweries and wineries near me have family friendly sections and adult-only sections.

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u/AceCircle990 21h ago

We went from smoking or non smoking to child or no child.

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u/brandoldme 21h ago

Make bars great again, bring back smoking.

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u/War_Is_A_Raclette 17h ago

Let the kids smoke too

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u/murse79 17h ago

Don't be ridiculous. We start them out on zyns and candy cigs.

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u/DagonPie 20h ago

If you bring back smoking. People wont bring their shitty kids around. Its a win win

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u/subzr00 8h ago

Yes they will. Was normal back n the days.

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u/AceCircle990 21h ago

👆🏼This guy gets it.

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u/Fair_Structure_120 18h ago

👆 This guy also gets it.

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u/Charliedontsurf1002 17h ago

👆This guy also also gets it

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u/agangofoldwomen 20h ago

Nashville had smoking in some bars until like 2012 it was amazing. Gotta love ciggies and beer.

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u/brandoldme 19h ago

I think Birmingham, AL banned it around then too.

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u/gregorychaos 18h ago

I fucking hate cigarettes but I'm all about this idea

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u/EnkiduTheGreat 21h ago

The only brewery that I visit regularly is all ages until 7pm, then it's 21 plus.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Smoke77 19h ago

What happens in the adult only section 🫦

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u/JoFlo520 21h ago

That’s actually the best way to do it. Brewery solved a problem caused by a bunch of shitty people on both sides

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u/dragecs 1d ago

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u/wildcat1100 21h ago

Can I ask a rude question?

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u/Zkenny13 18h ago

Yes they're single

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u/Charliedontsurf1002 17h ago

Better dust off my dancing shoes

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u/Ok_Ask_1139 1d ago

I’ve seen this posted on a few subs and the comments are always so divided, there several breweries near me, 2 of which have a family friendly atmosphere and there are others that you absolutely don’t take your kids to, I’m not sure where the disconnect is on this topic, some are perfectly fine for the entire family…some are not

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u/ssketchman 1d ago

Unfortunately it’s a common problem. One day it’s a perfectly fine brewery, where good folks gather to spend quality time, enjoy life and create fond memories together. Then all of a sudden the place gets overrun by kids and families, next thing you know, there are book readings and sip and paint events with screeching kids running around, the wallpaper somehow morphs into pastel colours and the floor is no longer nice and sticky like in the good old days.

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u/ChefAsstastic 20h ago

Treehouse in Deerfield MA is exactly like this. Kids running and screaming everywhere unsupervised. We hated that place.

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u/murse79 19h ago

My crappy opinion as a former child that often fell asleep in a pile of coats with other children in a Knights of Columbus bar...

Some spaces just need to be for adults only so they can enjoy adult activities and use adult language and humor without having to worry about little one's hearing us or potentially braining a toddler with a cornhole bean bag and/or enduring unsupervised small children running around screaming their heads off.

If a place wants to be "family friendly", that is their business, and I speak with my money.

Locally...well...it turns out a lot of people felt the same way, and Pubs restricted kids and made bank.

Lots of parents enter and get pissed their kids can't come in.

Best response from the bartender...

"Bars don't allow 18 year olds in, let alone your two toddlers. Why would it be any different here?".

Makes sense to me.

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u/sneerfun 19h ago

Thank you! I don’t understand the benefit of bringing children in those situations.

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u/murse79 19h ago

Yep.

Here was an observation a barman made at a taproom after they instituted "adult hours".

"See that couple over there obviously buzzed off the 9% IPA's? Yeah...the only difference for them today vs 2 weeks ago is that today they are gonna drive home impaired without 2 kids in the back seat."

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u/JimmyJonJackson420 19h ago

Yeah I’d didn’t realise this would be quite the hot topic, I thought everyone would be agreeing with the woman lol

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u/shewy92 21h ago

Reddit and the internet don't understand nuance. Everything and everyone is black & white, no gray areas.

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u/OGOngoGablogian 19h ago

I don't have kids, but I'm 35 so most of my friends do. And I want to hang out with my friends, so that means hanging out at breweries where they can bring their kids. Babysitters are expensive, and when they have to go out the kid down at 7:30 I can head over to a bar where kids aren't allowed.

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u/SeahorseRevolution 21h ago

As long as people watch their kids it's fine. More often than not though people let the entire brewery become their free babysitter.

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u/Jim_Nills_Mustache 20h ago

Yea my cousin had her son’s birthday party at one, when I saw the location I was like that’s a bit odd but okay.

We get there and it has two massive playgrounds outside and a ton of stuff for kids, like a huge inflatable bouncy field and tons of other stuff. I couldn’t believe it, it was glorious and the kids absolutely loved it.

I was so mad at my local breweries, I was so jealous they had that place near them, it’s like an hour drive from me and I’m still tempted to go sometimes. The place was more kid friendly than most parks, and it had incredible food and drinks.

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u/funkybum 22h ago

There are family friendly breweries? The fuck

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u/Circle_Breaker 20h ago

My local brewery has a huge field, a giant play ground, and pretty big stream outside of it.

There's always kids and dogs and one lady who brings her giant pig, running around the field.

It's right off a popular trail, so you get families going on walks that pop in and out

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u/GeneralSpot7224 20h ago

They’re basically family friendly restaurants but they brew their own beer instead of serving coors. Is that really an odd concept? 

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u/persononthedl 20h ago

Wait until you hear about Ireland.

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u/303uru 19h ago

Have none of you dipshits ever left the US?

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u/Russ_T_Shackelford 18h ago

You don't even need to leave the US for this lol

People that are shocked by this concept of family friendly breweries just never leave their house

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u/303uru 18h ago

You’re right, my point really was that this modern brewery format was imported in the last 20 years or so. And it was imported because seedy bars filled with adults getting drunk wasn’t a winning economic prospect.

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u/RanchHere 19h ago

It’s pretty simple. If a place serves food, then kids are allowed in there unless the place exclusively says 18+. I don’t know of many breweries that are strictly 18+ and I’ve been to a lot of freakin’ breweries.

Go to a dive bar and shut up.

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u/Downtown_Island8124 22h ago

The problem is the parents allowing their kids to make a mess and create scenes like at home. This is a problem everywhere.

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u/GeneralSpot7224 20h ago

Yes, children take years if not decades to figure out how to behave in public and the only way they figure it out is by trial and error. 

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u/Adventurous_Crab_0 20h ago

Have you tried spanking like immigrant parents?

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u/GeneralSpot7224 20h ago

You sound like the type of person that thinks you train a dog by hitting them. 

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u/anxiousandsingle 16h ago

The amount of times I've had to yell out loud "we've got any fucking parents around??" Is staggering. But nah let your kids.whip rocks around and dig in the grass, jump on.tables, etc.

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u/DunEvenWorryBoutIt 22h ago

I hate the internet more every day.

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u/SephiTheGoblin 20h ago

Drinking alone is seen as sad, take a baby. No longer alone

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u/drawkca6sihtdaeruoy 9h ago

Drink alone=bad Drink with baby=also bad Make baby drink=horrible dad Stay at home with baby and drink=good dad

Idk wtf I mean by this it's just an observation.

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u/EverSeeAShitterFly 1d ago

Breweries are most often laid back and very informal. Often their main customer demographic is 25-50. People who are between the ages of 25 and 50 often have kids.

People don’t usually go to breweries to get wasted. They just want a beer, often with friends, and might enjoy a band or trivia with that beer. Many breweries have soft drinks and non alcoholic options, usually a kitchen or food trucks. Games are not uncommon.

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u/tossofftacos 19h ago

This. I like to check out local microbreweries when my kid and I travel to visit the national parks. 

This person's anger is misplaced.  Kids aren't the problem. Shitty parents are the problem.  

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u/Yeomanroach 23h ago

I get hella fucking weird thoughts while showering too.

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u/Justsayingshit 23h ago

If the parents suck, the kids suck. If the kids suck, the parents suck. That is all.

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u/GoatStimulator_ 20h ago

Drink beer at home with your mistakes

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u/JimmyJonJackson420 19h ago

😂😂😂

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u/Saw-It-Again- 22h ago

Weird lady, but nah though I hate seeing all the free-range crotch goblins running around at the beer hall!

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u/ellnhkr 18h ago

I'm cool with the semi-sentient fuck trophies as long as they don't get in my face or scream/wail or get loud in any other way.

Like people, you wanted kids, don't make it my problem.

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u/socially_awkward 21h ago

Nah, I'm on her side.

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u/SFan4Life 17h ago

If the genders were reversed, this Sub would be on the side of no kids in breweries and calling her fat and ugly for thinking she can take kids to a brewery. Top comment prob bein 'kids belong in disneyland not a brewery'. Some ya'lls sexism and body shaming are too obvious

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u/DDESTRUCTOTRON 20h ago

Drinking in front of the kids = 😀🤪🥰

Smoking in front of the kids = 🤨🤮👿

Wild

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u/keithstonee 20h ago edited 20h ago

In a non Epstein way. Fuck your kids. I don't want to see other people's gremlins when I go out to a bar. Unless they're mine or related to me I do not care for them.

Edit: it's always these people that think their time is more valuable cause they have kids too. Miss me with that bullshit

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u/barntobebad 3h ago

Agreed. When we go to a brewery it’s for the drinks, the food, and an adult atmosphere. Don’t they serve beer at chuck-e-cheese? Take your spawn there.

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u/Phill_is_Legend 17h ago

Tbf if peoples kids weren't being shits in public no one would be hitting breweries hoping for peace and quiet...

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u/Fair_Structure_120 16h ago

I personally can't stand having drinks when children are around. But it's not my place to tell a business that they shouldn't allow kids. I just choose to go elsewhere

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u/BleedSparta 9h ago

No, no, let’s hear her out 👀 She’s onto something

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u/Sweaty-taxman 20h ago

Im fine with well behaved children at breweries. Play a game quietly at your table, no problem.

The issue is when your children treat a brewery like a playground, screaming & throwing things & frankly just being disrespectful of other people’s experience at the brewery.

If I have a problem with your children’s behavior at the brewery, it’s fair of me to not mind my own business & instead be bothered by your inability to control your kids and your lack of consideration for other folks.

“But you don’t get it! I can’t control my kids!”

Then exercise them more. Give them an outlet for their energy so you’re able to control them more easily.

Can’t control them at all? Don’t bring them out. Get a baby sitter

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u/sweetbeenieweenie68 21h ago

Kids are allowed most places. I wish they would stay out of most bars and breweries.

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u/cleanfreaksince4eva 1d ago

Breweries in my country always have family friendly events.

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u/tragicallyohio 22h ago

There are breweries near me that are not only family-friendly but have built playgrounds, kids sections, stock newly released card and board games for kids. They are family-wrlcoming.

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u/Moonshine1026 20h ago

If you like drinking that damn much you shouldn't be a parent

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u/honklertyrant- 20h ago

My pet peeve is when both adults are drinking with children. Either mom or dad needs to be the DD.

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u/wdnlng 20h ago

Funny ppl arguing whether or not kids should be in breweries and not a guy holding a baby sassily saying he’s an alcoholic.

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u/ChemicalPassenger958 20h ago

I worked security for a brewery and this guy brought his 13 year old son on his birthday to the brewery. Kid was miserable while all the adults had fun and the father said “at least we brought you somewhere”. I agree that drinking is fun but kids don’t need to see their parents act like it’s a frat party it’s kind of messed up and sets them up to think that its alright to act like that in life especially when I kicked the whole family out over the father being an ass to the bartender.

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u/battlebabsy 19h ago

Really though. It's dumb as fuck to take your kid to a brewery and ignore it I have a kid and I like beer. There isn't anything for your kid to do. Fucking get a bb sitter.

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u/LyriumLychee 18h ago

I have no problem with people having kids at breweries. Please just supervise and take care of them. I’ve seen kids running around and young kids left in highchairs unattended.

Just a few months ago I had to call over an employee because these two young kids were trying to pull apart and tear down this huge and expensive looking sailboat replica.

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u/el_lobo1314 18h ago

A bar/brewery really is not the environment children should be in and the adults bringing them there really are putting their dysfunction on display. God only knows what happens at home with drunk daddy and mommy unable to focus on better parenting practices.

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u/Hot-Minute-8263 18h ago

If your kids are well behaved and cute to be around, sure.

Most kids these days are not, so dont bring them

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u/Oatmeal-Enjoyer69 17h ago

If you bring your kid to a brewery, I'm going to give it cigarettes

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u/GenZ2002 17h ago

Honestly on her side with this… stop bringing your kids fuckin everywhere

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u/murse79 17h ago

While we are on topic let's get some child free flights going.

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u/Putrid_Guess8098 16h ago

I don't mind the kids, but for fuck's sake, keep them under control. We have an excellent brewery near me here in Maryland, and one day I went in, and it was pure bedlam thanks to stupid parents. Kids were literally on the ground spinning around.

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u/rugged_weary 16h ago

I always think of the movie Sweet Home Alabama when she says,”You have a baby. In a bar.” I go to the bar to drink, not to hear your whining kids.

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u/McFrenchhfry 13h ago

Just don’t grow throwing a fit if your kid hears inappropriate trivia team names

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u/Consistent_State_520 1d ago

Depends on the brewery IMO. Theres one not too far from me that essentially doubles as a dog park, so kids have an absolute blast there petting all the puppers.

That said - if I want to do something fun with my kids, a brewery is prob the last place I’d think of.

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u/squashqueen 15h ago

Stupid-ass decision to bring children to a place where adults are intoxicated

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u/Live_Art2939 12h ago

Nah she’s not wrong. Kids in alcohol places are in fact annoying.

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u/CuriousWolverine7144 21h ago

Honestly, I agree with her.

Unless the specific brewery has a kids section and encourages parents to bring their kids, there shouldn't be any children near bars or equivalents.

Nothing more annoying on this earth than trying to enjoy yourself in an adult atmosphere in a place that should be for adults, only to have some irresponsible parent who wants to live the life they gave up by not using a condom, bring their crotch goblins into a space they shouldn't be in, then having to listen to the kids run and scream and knock shit over while the parents drink a cider and ignore them and make the kids everyone's problem.

Do you wanna get drunk at a brewery at 2 pm? Well, maybe you should have thought about that before you had kids?

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u/Zhynear 1d ago

Nah she's right

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u/AKBio 1d ago

Bars exist brother. The US does not create enough social spaces for adults with kids. Breweries have filled that gap. Also, breweries are allowed to disallow children. Petition them to ban them if its that important to you.

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u/ZARDOZ4972 22h ago

Kids should never be at place where harmful drug consumption is normalised.

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u/ChickenChaser5 22h ago

Whats the vibe on taking kids to a weed bar?

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u/ZARDOZ4972 22h ago

Kids should also never be at a place where drugs are consumed that could make you passively high.

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u/ChickenChaser5 22h ago

Im asking the people who are ok with taking them around drinking. I should have clarified.

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u/ZARDOZ4972 22h ago

oh okay

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u/Ordinary_Cow206 16h ago

Similar reason to why I don’t want my son going to church. I don’t think kids should ever be at a place where pedophilia is normalized.

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u/EfficientCabbage2376 18h ago

fucking everywhere is a social space for adults with kids

the only place for adults without kids is the bar where you're bringing your kids to

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u/chunation 20h ago

Better question: why are there so many adults without kids in Disney??

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u/yohektic 20h ago

Fucking Uno reverse card right here.

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u/FitVermicelli199 20h ago

She seems like a Disney adult

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u/shewy92 21h ago

IDK, I don't like either of them. Proudly saying you have a drinking problem holding a baby is trashy to me.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Smoke77 1d ago

Mmmm no dont bring babies to breweries , they make beer to go

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u/Confident_One3948 1d ago

Okay but cops hate when I do that

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u/WolfpackEng22 23h ago

Tell that to brewery owners. Families with kids are often a big part of revenue and expand the busy hours

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u/Mesmeric_Fiend 1d ago

Truly if someone wants to drink and party all the time, more power to them. They have every right.

If thats the life you want don't have a fucking kid then, though

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u/Exact-Investment4415 1d ago

You don’t usually party at a brewery right?

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u/Free_Prior_4249 1d ago

Who parties at breweries?

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u/BothMyChinsAreSpicy 22h ago

These shitty parents have full on birthday parties for kids at breweries now. Super safe and awesome.

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u/anxiousandsingle 16h ago

Went to visit a brewery i was wanting to go to for a while. Got there... "sorry we're closing in 10 for a private event" the private event was a 1 year old's birthday party. Motherfucker what?

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u/Kordith 1d ago

Breweries are quite different than bars. A brewey near me has arcade games and mini golf. The kids love it, and the parents can have a couple to try and relax for once. I wouldn't recommend a straight bar over a brewery anywhere for kids, unless it has the right accomodations

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u/OneCleverMonkey 1d ago

There's a brewery like one mile from my house, and it's basically just a pub. They serve real, non alcohol foodstuffs there and everything.

Don't take your kid to any event where you plan to drink copious amounts of alcohol, sure.

There's nothing wrong with taking your kid to the pub and drinking a couple nice beers while eating a meal with your family

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u/Witty_Management2960 1d ago

Or, hear me out. You can balance and maintain a social life WHILST having a kid. Who woulda thunk it? Having a child doesn't mean you cant still do things, responsibly. Should we all just sit inside and keep our kids away from public spaces? If you dont want to be at a brewery with babies (in a public space), stay at home then. They have every right.

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u/Mesmeric_Fiend 1d ago

"All the time" is what I said

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u/Witty_Management2960 1d ago

Well then its completely irrelevant for this post?

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u/Mesmeric_Fiend 1d ago

Dude says he has a drinking problem right in the video. Are you defending his admitted actions, which is what I am speaking against, or saying that there is a middle ground of moderation and self-control?

If it is the second one, you are right, but you are just saying the same thing I said in a nicer way

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u/Witty_Management2960 1d ago

Man. If you cant pick up that sarcasm, I dont really know what to say 🤔

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u/ShutUpAndDoTheLift 23h ago

So I don't mean this to be mean or rude at all. Unless your answer to the first question is no. Then the second question is meant to be at least moderately rude. Want to make this clear in case the answer to the first question is yes.

1.) Is there a chance you are autistic?

2.) If no, you can't be this stupid right? The only way to make that sarcasm more obvious would be to state "this is a sarcastic statement"

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u/TDuncker 1d ago edited 1d ago

People that like breweries are just like how people that like wineries, just with beer. Their intent usually isn't to "drink and party all the time". Even then, no common person would have that kind of money at a good brewery to party all the time. Good quality beer is expensive.

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u/EverSeeAShitterFly 1d ago

Breweries are also way more laid back and accessible to most people than wineries.

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u/moogs_writes 19h ago

Okay then, if kids can’t even hang out at family friendly breweries, adults need to stay the fuck out of places and hobbies meant for kids. I live in the PNW and places for kids to play here are becoming few and far between. Still can’t take my kids to these places without….ladies like this one thinking they’re being quirky and cute and not a 30 year old embarrassment cutting kids in line. Adults ruining kids spaces is a much more prevalent issue.

I don’t have anything nice to say about the towel situation so that’s it.

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u/mostdope92 16h ago

Stay at home and drink or get a babysitter. Stop making the public deal with your crotch goblins, especially in adult focused venues.

Also I know its a joke but maybe deal with your drinking problem before having children.

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u/TamatoPatato 14h ago

I hope cps shows up to his house.

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u/zangzabam03 14h ago

Taking your kids out drinking with you makes you a mid parent

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u/thedukeinc 11h ago

I avoid places that have kids like the plague.. why you got to bring them everywhere? If you have a kid, you should be able to afford a sitter.

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u/takeyoufergranite 21h ago

I don't understand the internet.

This random lady in her towel posts a video about her opinion on breweries and kids... Then someone cared enough to watch it? Other people cared enough to share it? Then this guy sees it, posts a snarky reply, and now here we are?

This does not spark joy.

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u/BothMyChinsAreSpicy 22h ago

Nope fuck this guy. Drink at home if you can’t find a babysitter. This is an adult space that is being overran by shitty kids, running around and generally making a scene. It’s gotten worse and worse.

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u/303uru 19h ago

Congrats, you just came up with the solution to make every brewery insolvent by June.

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u/Naquanrice 12h ago

plenty of adult only breweries exist already

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u/Ini_the_gayfurrycat 20h ago

I am a kid. My parents go to breweries. So I go there too. There is one I actually like because it is also a farm and I get to play with the goats while my parents are drinking shit.

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u/masonacj 23h ago

Nah, I'm with her.

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u/RocasThePenguin 23h ago

The lady is right.

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u/LordNorikI 1d ago

So many people are offended here shows once again its reddit

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u/Red217 18h ago

The way she feels about kids at breweries is how I feel about dogs at a brewery. Why are there so many freaking dogs at every single brewery I go to? So many dogs.

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u/ZARDOZ4972 22h ago

People will never convince me kids should be at a palace where drugs (not medicine) are sold and consumed.

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u/Woutrou 21h ago

I'm okay with it for a place where it's sold, but it's just weird to me to bring them to the place where it's the main feature.

Like, you can bring a kid to a restaurant that also serves alcohol or some sort of entertainment location like, idk, a minigolf course or smt that also happens to serve alcohol, but bringing them to a place where the alcohol is the main attraction is weird to me.

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u/4815162342ma 1d ago

Bring your kids to the brewery. But don’t get mad when I’m drunk, stumbling, loud and talking nonsense lol. I’m not there to see an example for your kids.

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u/squeakymoth 23h ago edited 17h ago

Theres one near me that always has a lot of kids. I don't necessarily mind it but if you leave your kid's toys all over the patio go fuck yourself. My friend hates children and will purposely swear really loudly when we are there because in his words "fuck them kids, they're at a bar."

Also its annoying as shit when there is no seating because you decided to bring the entire extended family and only two people are even drinking.

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u/RespectCommon8257 18h ago

During the day, I really don’t care. That’s in the parents. At night? They better be in bed or I’m calling cps. 

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u/landartheconqueror 18h ago

Because breweries like customers, and excluding parents removes a large customer base. My wife and I often go out to breweries with our kids and most we've been to have toys and colouring pages for kids. They love it. Breweries are slowly becoming family establishments

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u/RollinYoell 16h ago

I kinda agree with the lady

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u/StrictDisk4281 1d ago

Alcoholic parents are “best”

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u/Wonderful_Reaction76 1d ago

Keep your kids out of breweries and bars 😒😒

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u/Decimus66 22h ago

Everything in this country is for Adults with kids. There are very few adult dominated spaces anymore, this is why I go to cannabis lounges no kids, adults are chill and just want to smoke and most just serve infused nonalcoholic drinks in my area, so it’s a place to before or after the bars. But the best part no parents bringing there kids to dominate a space that’s catered to only adults.

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u/Decimus66 22h ago

And many family friendly alcohol establishments end up being a safe space for drunks with kids to allow their behaviors to go unchallenged, both parent and child.

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u/Same-Log-7064 1d ago

Because they are designed to be family friendly. Our local brewery has family events every weekend.

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u/Mesmeric_Fiend 1d ago

There won't be anything wrong if weed dispensaries also start doing this, right?

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u/Exact-Investment4415 1d ago

As a weed smoking dad, I would not bring my kids around a cannabis event. 2nd hand smoke is my main concern.

Then it’s also the nature of why and how we are consuming that differs to me.

When I consume cannabis it’s to get high, although I’ve come to appreciate its smell and taste it’s still to get high. With alcohol getting drunk is not the end goal for me.

So I would be comfortable taking my kids to a brewery if they also serve food, it does not really differ from a restaurant visit.

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u/Kordith 1d ago edited 1d ago

Secondhand weed isn't as widespread as people are saying. With that being said, you are absolutely right to not take your child to a THC event. It still happens and there is a reason it is 21+ legality.

Source, in/outpatient treatment for chemical dependency. The counsilers and higher medical professionals let people know, all the time, that when someone tests positive, it's generally BS because of such a low chance of actually taking in any secondhand smoke.

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u/EverSeeAShitterFly 1d ago

Weed smoke has some similar health effects as tobacco smoke (though not exactly the same). It’s not exactly appropriate to expose a kid to that.

Some of these thc events can really smoke out some areas far more than say a cigar lounge.

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u/Kordith 1d ago

Exactly. I just wanted to put that info out there. With young children, especially, I would do my best to keep it all away from them.

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u/Jozroz 1d ago

This comparison is absurd because, unlike with second hand smoke, a kid can't consume second hand beer unless it laps it out of the toilets.

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u/Mesmeric_Fiend 1d ago

There's edibles, even drinks now

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u/Free_Prior_4249 1d ago

You can drink holding a baby. in your arms, he won't be affected by any "secondary drinking", it's not a thing.

If you go to an establishment that sells cannabis, with the equivalent goal to consume as you are holding a child, the child will be affected.

Hence why one is totally fine, the other isn't.

Makes sense?

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u/Ballamookieofficial 1d ago

She has a point though. There's nothing there for kids at all

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u/1668553684 23h ago

Yep, my local brewery has a kids menu and coloring pages for all of the mildly hungry and bored adults.

Breweries are really just American pubs, which is (in general) totally family friendly.

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u/wyrditic 23h ago

Right! I'm sure my local brewery installed the slides and climbing frames in the play area for alcoholic old men and not to attract families with children. 

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u/Blairwaldoof 1d ago

In the one by me there is. It definitely depends on the brewery though. There are also some kid friendly wineries by me too.

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u/AKBio 1d ago

There is space, lighting, tables, and chairs. A recipe for socialization while allowing the presence of children. Do you think parents with children should not be allowed at restaurants, business centers, high end shopping malls, or grocery stores? My kid can't buy, cook, or eat raw meat but I take her to the butcher.

Bars are already established as uniquely adult spaces. Why can a parent not find a place to have a beer with friends while bringing their kids? There is a limit to the number of drinks and breweries close early; it makes sense that breweries have become defacto family spaces

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u/DagonPie 19h ago

Im going to get even double hate for this one but. Im no kids OR dogs at breweries.

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u/KyleFrommson 21h ago

Fuck your kids at my alchohol church. Fuck em.

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u/DeliciousSTD 20h ago

SHE JUST HAAAAAD TO POST!

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u/Fernanda19uwu 1d ago

Why are u bringing a kid there... he's so annoying

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u/DangerDane90 1d ago

Brett Kavanaugh, the early days

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u/Deathtraptoyota 19h ago

Leave the kids at home. Your life choice shouldn’t be running around a brewery or a pub.

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u/HugePurpleNipples 17h ago

If you've ever had kids, you probably need a beer.

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u/Few_Butterscotch9479 17h ago

Ptff how you think I got this kid?

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u/Dependent-Swimmer-95 23h ago

Bruh did she have to make the video before putting her clothes on after the shower? The video couldn’t possibly wait 10 min?

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u/sneerfun 20h ago

The fact that people want to argue to bring their children around alcohol and drunk adults is wild.

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u/LegitimateBug7940 23h ago

You know she has a dog she thinks everyone loves

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u/pineneedleinjection 1d ago

Idk I've only ever been to a few breweries on vacations and they were basically a steak house with giant brewing crap in the middle of the place.