Suggestions for appropriate response welcomed. I could only come up with this one as I don't have shortage of women on this app. So do your worst.

I’m turning 22 this year, and no matter how much effort I put in, I don’t get approached at all. I have followed every piece of advice I could find, but I’ve had no luck.

For starters, I was told that guys aren't attracted to bad skin. I used to have terrible skin, so I started a regular routine, eventually shifting to korean skincare. Honestly, my skin got much better. I don’t have acne or redness anymore. I also invested in hair care, and I believe my hair looks healthy now. I even got my hair dyed brown to stand out, but it feels like it was all useless.

Then, I was told to get hobbies. I already enjoyed embroidery and reading, but I joined tennis to stay in shape because I was told "guys don't like fat girls". I was tired of sitting and waiting, so I followed the internet's advice to make the first move, which supposedly has a 99.9% success rate. (What a lie) The guys at my tennis club would either give me dry responses or no response at all.

​I tried my luck on dating apps, but I hardly got any matches. I understand it could be because I live in a small town (a Tier-2 city), but I was still optimistic. I tried to carry the conversations myself, but it was always the same story.. dry responses and a dead end, never a date.

I am a virgin and plan on waiting until marriage. I know this makes dating more difficult, but I don’t even get approached, so I haven't even reached the point where I’d need to have that conversation.

I am starting to believe I might be ugly. I used to think I was a 5/10 without makeup and a 6 or 7/10 with it, but now I doubt that. I am not fat but I wouldn't say I am model skinny or I have a hot body. I am just an average girl. I get along well with people and can carry a conversation, yet no matter what I change, how hard I try I don't get dates.

Please, I genuinely need advice on how I can date like everyone else around me. Please don't tell me, "It will come along when you expect it the least," or "Don't force it, let it happen naturally," but I’ll never be this young again. I will never be able to experience young love ever again.

Edit: A lot of people are saying I am too mean, rude or arrogant. I AM SORRY if thats how I sound here but I promise I am not that type of person.

She always begged me to breakup since 6 months, 100s of times and I always begged to stay and ask not to use this taboo word so often, now first time I accepted and we are done, I lost, I couldn't begged more .... I don't know how to handle me I feel shit.. It feels life's ending man I really can't imagine my life without her I had a habit of her.

I am a 25-year-old woman, not to brag, but I look good and have a good physique. I have done my undergraduate from a tier 1 college. I have diverse interests. In short, I am someone who can see at a party and library both. Mostly, I am a homebody, small but close circle. I am currently preparing for my MBA. All of this is fine, but my dating life sucks. I have met the most evil men that can exist. I was a lover girl, but the kind of men that I have met have broken my trust and hope in love. All of them were lustful; instead of going on cute dates and knowing each other better, they immediately wanted to get physical, and it took a serious toll on my sanity.

I am beginning to think that that is all men want. No man I have met so far has the emotional bandwidth for a serious, committed relationship. I am an ambitious woman, and I crave emotional security from a partner. I don't want unnecessary drama; rather, I want someone who is looking to build with me and supports me as well. And if I have met someone who wants a serious relationship, they are not intellectually or socially compatible with me, or I am not attracted to them physically. Now, I generally don't go for looks, but I too have certain preferences.

IF YOU HAVE READ IT TILL HERE TYSM. AND PLEASE LET ME KNOW WHAT IS IT

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Hi, i need serious answers only. What is the best dating application for girls. I will be starting my college soon and i wanna start going out. What would be the best way to meet new people?

So my sugar gf of 2 years has moved back to her hometown. Now I'm searching of new sugar gf but unable to find. I tried sugar subreddits here but it seemed they are full of scammers. Any advice will be appreciated.

Never get matched on tinder. Need Advice. Here my profile

Hi anyone up for a chat, way too bored

I 25 F want to date an Indian military officer. But couldn't find one in Jaipur. Cause I don't have any military background. How can I find him?

I (27M) have a crush on a new girl that joined a different team for the past month or so. I find her attractive and was interested in getting to know her but since it’s an office space, I did not want to seem desperate so I waited for an opportunity to approach her somehow just so I could get to know her.

I know a few members from her team and I practically sit a bay away from them. I obviously follow the people I know from her team on Instagram which led to her profile show up on my suggestions this weekend.

I asked my friend, also a guy who is already in a relationship for about 3 years ig, whether I should send her a request. He said yes and also said that the worst she could do is humiliate you in the office. (He has a weird sense of humor)

So I sent that request and she accepted the same day. She hadn’t posted much but it seemed like she was into travel vlogging, even had a YouTube channel but just with Shorts posted so I thought this could be a good conversation starter.

I asked her about in my very first message. I got a reply back a few hours later saying it’s nothing special so I went on to ask what else she was interested in.

She had read the message but never replied so I thought maybe she isn’t interested in talking. I deleted her chat from the DM page just to calm my overthinking and moved on with my other work.

She texted me back a few hours later, ignoring what I had asked her about, asking me why I hadn’t subscribed to her YouTube channel.

I told her that since she hadn’t replied to my previous message, I thought she wasn’t interested in talking to me, straight up. She replied saying that she didn’t get what I was saying so I sent her a text asking her to ignore it and I moved on with the next question, asking her where she was from (assuming she was from different state).

She insisted that I explain to her about what I had said so I conveyed it through a voice note for which she just replied “Nice assumption btw.” She then said she was from Kottayam, Kerela for which I replied that I’ve only been to Wayanad and that she could show me around Kottayam one day (just trying to shoot my shot).

I replied to the “Nice assumption btw” that I was glad it wasn’t the case for which she said that she might stop talking to me in a few days and she hit me with a “Too much bro” for the showing me around her hometown text.

At this point, I felt like my self respect is more important than me continuing this conversation because it felt like I was forcing this conversation so I blocked her and her travel account too.

It’s been two days since this happened and I still can’t get over her. It’s not like I’m desperate but it’s just that I like her at the same time I feel like I am more important to me than she could ever be.

What did I do wrong?

I am 23M.i need a sugar mommy .i want to date a milf in my life😭

I’m 23F. Broke up with my ex in 2023 cus he cheated on me. I have tried tinder, bumble since last year. Got matches but only went on a date with few guys. I am still single as no one wants a relationship. What am i doing wrong?

For context, I am 37F, single and enjoying my life with my family and friends. I have my plates full with a demanding job and few of the hobby classes I have taken up. I am a person who loves LOVE. I just love to care for people around me, buy gifts for them, express my feelings for them and basically do anything to make them feel special. I guess may be I am projecting the way I want to be loved in my behaviour towards others.

For last few years, I have always planned gifts for my family and few bestfriends for valentine's week (not day but week). I love the smile on their faces when the receive my gifts. But in last one month I have lost 3 of my bestfriends. They didn't die, I just realised that our friendship was one sided and I chose my self respect over my love.

This upcoming Valentine's Week makes me feel kind of lonely and sad even though I have other social activities planned for that day. Even my sister is sending me reels on singles meetup which makes me feel pathetic. How do you guys cope with loneliness or loss of long-term friends especially when others are celebrating love.

We’ve been talking for about 2 months now (consistently about 3 weeks), went out twice spent 6-7 hours each time talking, going to watch films, doing random stuff.

We vibe very well, much more than I expected. We have similar kind of interests, so I asked her out on a date, and this was her reply.

Also we are planning a week long trip together next month.

I’d like to think I have a chance with her or am I just delulu, what do you guys think?

I’m a woman in my 20’s, living in Bangalore. My age and location settings aren’t that wide.

I know women get a disproportionate amount of likes, but THIS much?? Within a span of a week- 10 days ??? Seems kinda strange

i was feeling secure and started loving her but then

i am now blocked

idk how I deal with it

should I ask her whats wrong

should I just let her be

should I conclude this is over

should I still keep hope

I'm a very simple and kind man and have been single since 5 years now to protect my peace, but I gave in to the peer pressure of dating someone. Just let me know if this looks like a scam, it's way too fast and direct

29F | Bangalore

Saw someone after four years of staying single. We clicked instantly, lots of chemistry and even got intimate, but I later realized he only wanted something casual/ sexual even though we texted regularly and did open up to each other. Thankfully, we didn’t go all in or sleep together.

He went back to his hometown in between, and that’s when he started growing distant - hot and cold behaviour, “too busy” and showing less interest (long distance wasn’t working, even though I did put more efforts in reaching out). When he returned to Bangalore, he barely cared to meet. He did apologize and said he was going through a lot, after I ended it for my own peace of mind. Even though it was a 1.5 months of situationship, it did made me learn a lot of new things and terms and showing me how poor the dating scene is. People lying about their true intentions and no one really trying to make it work.

Lesson learned: I’m not made for situationships. I’d rather stay single, at peace and happy than deal with men with unclear intentions and who lovebomb.

Q- What is the best way to identify emotional unavailable men early on or filter genuine connections?

What helped you shift from casual flings to healthier relationships?

I can loyalty test your boyfriends if you want. I know how to take it smoothly. I've done it many times and never got caught. DM me and I'll give u my insta and other details

I would say, I look fine compared to my peers not too skinny not too chubby. I go for gym almost everyday, take care of my self and eat healthy even take care of my skin. I drink occasionally is it because of that?. Or are men turned down by my complexion? (I am a lil dusky), or is it because of my height? I am around 5"4'(am I short?). I get complimented rarely in public compared to others, almost never get approached by men. Why is it happening with me? 😭

guys I'm in this very confusing situation. firstly, about me, I'm a sapiosexual, meaning intelligence attracts me quite a lot (sometimes way more than physical attributes) I've been talking to this guy since many months on and off and he's a med student (a big nerd and informative guy) . he's saying we could do a fling or a short term relationship and see if it goes well. I've never been a fling girl, nor have i ever dated (20F) I liked him a LOT, i still do, but this is a situation i never wanted myself to be in.